Thursday, March 05,
2026 - Popular life coach Solomon Buchi has warned women against being
swayed by charm and superficial attraction when choosing a life partner.
In a viral Facebook post, Buchi emphasized that pregnancy,
childbirth and postpartum are the true tests of a man’s character.
He urged women to look beyond “rizz and playboy aura,”
stressing that these phases rarely reveal whether a man is genuinely supportive
and kind.
“When you’re choosing a husband, remember that you’re choosing the
man who’ll be the father of your kids; the man who’ll love you through the
pregnancy fatigue, big nose, mouth odor; the man who’ll stand by you during
childbirth; the man who will love you through the perineal tears, stretch marks
and mom bod,” he wrote.
Buchi added that many women only realize the mistake of
marrying for superficial reasons once they face the realities of motherhood.
“Some of you are attracted to ‘rizz’ and playboy aura, and I swear
that you will never know the mistake you’ve made until pregnancy and
postpartum—that’s when men show their truest colours.”
“Choose in the spirit or PERISH,” he cautioned.
The Kenyan DAILY POST


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