Wednesday, April 3, 2024 – A physically healthy 28-year-old Dutch woman has chosen to legally end her life due to her struggles with crippling depression, autism and borderline personality disorder, according to a report.
Zoraya ter Beek, who lives in a village in the Netherlands
near the German border, is scheduled to be euthanized in May, leaving behind
her 40-year-old boyfriend and her two cats.
Ter Beek, who once aspired to be a psychiatrist, has been
dealing with mental health struggles throughout her life.
She said she decided to be euthanized after her doctors told
her, “There’s nothing more we can do for you. It’s never gonna get any
better,” according to The Free Press.
“I was always very clear that if it doesn’t get better, I
can’t do this anymore,” ter Beek said.
She is just one of the growing number of people in the West
who have decided to die rather than continue living in pain.
More people are deciding to end their lives while suffering from other mental health problems like depression or anxiety amplified by economic uncertainty, climate change, social media and other issues, The Free Press reported.
“I’m seeing euthanasia as some sort of acceptable option
brought to the table by physicians, by psychiatrists, when previously it was
the ultimate last resort,” Stef Groenewoud, a healthcare ethicist at
Theological University Kampen, in the Netherlands, told the outlet.
“I see the phenomenon especially in people with psychiatric
diseases, and especially young people with psychiatric disorders, where the
healthcare professional seems to give up on them more easily than before,” she
added.
Ter Beek plans to be cremated after she’s euthanized on the
couch in her living room.
“No music,” she said.
A doctor will first give her a sedative, followed by a drug
that will stop her heart. Her boyfriend will be at her side until the end.
“The doctor really takes her time. It is not that they walk
in and say: lay down please! Most of the time it is first a cup of coffee to
settle the nerves and create a soft atmosphere,” she said.
“Then she asks if I am ready. I will take my place on the
couch. She will once again ask if I am sure, and she will start up the
procedure and wish me a good journey. Or, in my case, a nice nap, because I
hate it if people say, ‘Safe journey.’ I’m not going anywhere.”
There will not be a funeral.
Ter Beek, who does not have much family, said her boyfriend
will scatter her ashes in “a nice spot in the woods” that they have picked out.
“I’m a little afraid of dying, because it’s the ultimate
unknown,” she said.
“We don’t really know what’s next—or is there nothing?
That’s the scary part.”
The Netherlands became the first country in the
world to make assisted suicide legal in 2001.
Since then, it’s become an increasingly popular option among
the population.
In 2022, there were 8,720 euthanasia deaths in the
Netherlands.
In February, the 93-year-old former Dutch Prime Minister Dries
van Agt and his wife died hand in hand by euthanasia.
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