Monday, March 18, 2024 – A Scottish solicitor has ended his own life in a Swiss clinic following a long illness.
Bruce De Wert, who was suffering from a severe form of
multiple sclerosis, travelled to Basel last month.
The 69-year-old undertook the journey on his own having
informed his family, including his wife and two adult daughters, of his
intentions for an assisted death.
Daughter Nicole Wightman said he planned all the details
himself including his memorial service.
The 44-year-old mother of two said: ‘I think he had been
contemplating Switzerland for some time.
‘He was becoming more and more disabled, and he was
deteriorating quite significantly. It was horrible to watch.
‘He did look quite frail where he had been strong and fit
and did every sport under the sun.
‘Dad had been looking forward to his retirement and
travelling round Europe and I think it came as a shock to realise he would not
be able to do that. He had lost his independence and did not want to be a
burden.’
Last week around 60 family, friends, and former colleagues
attended a moving humanist memorial service at the Parkville Hotel in Blantyre,
Lanarkshire.
Ms Wightman, who has two teenage daughters, said it came as
a shock when her father had told the family of his plans.
He had not wanted to end up in care or his wife to be forced
to look after him.
She added: ‘Dad decided that if he left it much longer he
wouldn’t be able to go to Switzerland.
‘Like everything in Dad’s life, he went out and did his
research and then told us the decision he had made and what his plan was.’
He took a taxi from his home in Bothwell, Lanarkshire, on
February 21, then took a flight to Frankfurt and a connection to Basel.
Representatives of Pegasos, a voluntary assisted dying
association, picked him up at the airport and he stayed at a hotel overnight
before being taken to the clinic the next day.
Mr De Wert insisted that no family members should accompany
him. However, he called his wife on the morning of his death to say his final
goodbye.
The former solicitor was diagnosed three years ago with
primary progressive multiple sclerosis after a series of dizzy turns and
problems with his balance and eyes.
Ms Wightman said her father was insistent that he went on
his own to Switzerland, despite his ill health, in case a relative was
prosecuted or implicated in his death.
Family members spent time with him on February 20, the day
before his departure to Switzerland, giving him a last hug.
Mr De Wert passed away on the morning of February 22 having
phoned his wife beforehand. His wife was informed of his passing later that
day.
He had left details of his life for the celebrant to read
out at his memorial service and chose the music he wanted played.’
Everyone at the memorial remembered what a wonderful person
he was and that he was larger than life,’ said Ms Wightman.
The family will be sent his ashes and death certificate from
Switzerland.
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