Tuesday, June 17, 2025 - Kenyan digital content creator, Alma Mutheu, has set social media ablaze after boldly advising women to stop making financial investments in the men they are dating.
“Let’s stop investing in men!” she declared via her
Instagram stories on Monday evening.
“Men don’t like being pampered - and if a man gets too
comfortable with it, he’ll take that money, go out, and cheat on you with
someone beneath you.”
Alma encouraged women to prioritise self-worth and financial
independence instead of trying to a “build a man.”
“Ladies, stop building men. Invest in yourself and let a man
meet you where you are,” she wrote.
“No one claps for women who sacrifice everything for a man
who ends up choosing someone else.”
She followed up with a sarcastic jab: “If you build a man,
he will cheat on you. Nimesha waambia, nyinyi endeleeni tu kubuild,”
While she didn’t name names, she hinted at a painful
betrayal, suggesting she once supported a partner through hard times, only to
be dumped when success arrived.
In a short TikTok video posted after the backlash, she said,
“I’m not bitter. I’m wiser. Women deserve more than being stepping stones.”
The Kenyan DAILY POST
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