Your wife is an outsider, do not prioritize her over your siblings who are your blood - Lawyer’s advice to men sparks reactions

Monday, September 15, 2025 - A controversial relationship take has stirred debate online after Nigerian lawyer Wale Omolegbon Odusola advised men to prioritize their siblings over their wives.

In a viral Facebook post, Odusola described wives as “outsiders” and urged men to remain loyal to their blood relatives.

“Your siblings are your blood while she is an outsider that just came into your life,” he wrote, warning that neglecting family is akin to ‘digging your early grave’

The post quickly sparked mixed reactions, with some agreeing that family bonds should remain sacred, while others criticized the view as outdated and harmful to marital unity.

The Kenyan DAILY POST