Tuesday, March 12, 2024 – English singer-songwriter and actress, Lily Allen has admitted her two daughters have ‘totally ruined’ her pop career because she chose to prioritise them instead of focusing on her career.
The singer-turned-actress, 38, said she believes women have
to decide whether to put their children or their career first, saying she chose
the former.
‘My children ruined my career. I love them and they complete
me, but in terms of pop-stardom, they totally ruined it,’ she told
the Radio Times Podcast.
‘I get really annoyed when people say you can have it all
because, quite frankly, you can’t.
‘Some people choose their career over their children and
that’s their prerogative, but my parents were quite absent when I was a kid.
‘I feel like it left some nasty scars that I’m not willing
to repeat on mine.’
Lily's father is actor Keith Allen, 70, who left
het film producer mother Alison Owen, 63, when Lily was four years
old.
Lily has now said that she ‘chose to step back and
concentrate on my children’ and she’s glad that she has as ‘they’re pretty
well-rounded.’
The Smile singer shares two daughters Ethel Mary, 12,
and Marnie Rose, 10, with her ex-husband builder Sam Cooper, 45.
Lily now lives in New York with her children and new
husband, Stranger Things star David Harbour, 48, whom she married in 2020
and has turned her hand to acting.
She said: ‘I was about two years sober, I’d just moved to
New York.
‘A big part of sobriety is surrendering and letting God – in
whatever way you want to believe in that – have a plan for you.
I got a call from a casting director who was putting on a
play [2:22 A Ghost Story] in the West End. I said: “No, I’m not an actress”.
‘But then I was talking to David – I’d been feeling a bit
directionless and didn’t really know what I was doing with my life, except for
being a mum and setting up a new home in Brooklyn.
‘He said, “Maybe you should call them back” and five weeks
later I was in rehearsal.’
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