My name is Stella from Kajiado.I want to reveal what
happened to me in June 2017 that almost made me commit suicide. I wish also
Mpango Wa Kando to learn from what I did.
I got married in 2007 through
a church wedding. My husband works as an accountant with a government
institution while I work as a teacher in Kajiado.After the wedding, we went to
settle in Nairobi. At that time, I wasn’t working yet but my husband was
working in Nairobi CBD.
From 2007 to 2014 we were blessed with three children,
two boys and one girl. It’s in 2015 when I applied for a TSC vacancy and I was
posted in a public school in Kajiado.I was forced to relocate to the area.
Following the developments, my
husband was forced to adjust his schedule. He started visiting me every
Friday…he would come on Friday and return to Nairobi on Sunday. The routine
continued until 2016 April when he was transferred to Mombasa.
Due to the distance from
Kajiado to Mombasa, my husband couldn’t manage to visit me every weekend; he
was forced to come at most once a month. For four consecutive months, he didn’t
miss to come once, especially end month. But it reached a point he stopped
coming. He stayed for 3 good months before he visited. But the night he came, I
noticed he had changed.Initially,he used to leave his phone with me without
getting worried, but this time he had placed a password on it.
That morning, I asked him why
he has placed a password on his phone. He replied,”kwani unanichunga chunga,si ufurahi
at least nimekuja kukuona?!!”I didn’t ask him anything-I just continued with my
After spending the weekend, he
returned to Nairobi.But when he was boarding,he left me with Ksh 500….normally,
he used to give me Ksh 2,000.I realized there was something terribly wrong.
After one month, my husband
didn’t come. I called him to confirm why he has changed and he told me it’s
because he has a lot of work.I waited until the second month was halfway and
embarked on a journey to Mombasa.I didn’t tell him I was visiting.
At around 10 pm I arrived
where he lives, I knew the place because I escorted him when he was relocating
to Mombasa.Before I could knock the door,I heard this: ki Uko mtamu
,Waao,Waao,Finyilia Ndani Babe”.I thought I was in the wrong house.I went
straight to the window to peep inside.I confirmed something was happening
inside.Out of anger,I pushed the door hard and called in loud voice,”James,how
can you do this to me?”.When he heard my voice,he roared,”who invited you
here,you woman,return to Kajiado until I call you!”.I shouted again,”fungua ama
nipige nduru”.That’s when he opened the door.
As I entered I found a brown
woman sitted on the bed wearing a towel.We started engaging in a fight which
forced my husband to intervene.But he told me something I can’t forget,that you
are shapeless,upende usipende nitamwoa.
That night,I was forced to
sleep in the couch as my husband slept in the bedroom.the woman disappeared to
where I don’t know.
The following morning, my
husband removed his wedding ring and gave me, he also gave everything that
belongs to me.He told me, “bye,don’t come again unless you are ready to die”
and he closed the door.
Since I didn’t want more
drama, I went to town and boarded TSS bus.
After about 2 months, I heard
my husband had married the lady.He had also cut communication. He did not even
bother to come to visit my children. Whenever I tried to call him, he hanged on
me.I suffered a lot as I paid rent,school fees and everything my family
needed.I knew I have lost my husband to another woman but I didn’t want him to
go like that.I figured out how to bring him back,I tried to pray in church but
nothing good came out of it.It’s at this point I Googled on how to bring back a
husband who has been taken by a Mpango wa Kando.I found this number +254740637248 which I
called.That time I was desperate,I didn’t mind what could happen to the mpango
wa kando as long as I got help.I looked at True Caller and discovered the
number belongs to Dr Mugwenu ,a traditional herbalist.
After I called, he told me to
visit his office in Nairobi.I did as he told me.But he also gave me this email
to write him anything I feel should be done firstname.lastname@example.org
Two weeks into visiting the doctor,
my husband called me that his thing has failed to perform.He was also feeling
pain and was worried that he might die.His Mpango wa Kando had left him and
they were not talking anymore. He begged me to pray for him as he waits to
die.He knew I am a prayerful person.
It’s after what I did that my
husband returned to me.We are now living happily as husband and wife.