I am Njoki from Nakuru.I have been in constant problems with
my husband, in fact for 6 years I have been in constant trouble woman. This is
what I have gone through.
In 2010 we did a colourful
wedding in Nakuru.This was after we had dated for 2 years. Our future looked
bright as my husband promised to love me unconditionally and ensure our love
After one year of marriage, I
delivered my first born. It’s at this time that I also managed to secure a job
in Kisumu as an accountant. I think when one delivers, blessings also come in
I remember my husband
escorting me to Kisumu when I was reporting for work. After I settled, he returned
to Nakuru alone.
We planned that he visits me
in Kisumu every weekend since he did not have enough time during week days. For
close to 6 months,he visited me in Nakuru.Every time he visted,I made sure I
gave him properly to prevent him from cheating. But as we continued pushing
days, I realized one strange thing in his phone. When we were in Nakuru,he
never used to place a password in his phone but as I moved to Kisumu he did
place one. I asked him why he did so and he told me it’s because of our kid who
used to download games. I told him to show me the password-he accepted. Later
he changed the password…but I discovered.
There is a time I managed to
touch his phone.It was when he had just gone to the bathroom and forgot to put
the password.I was shocked he was in constant communication with a girl known
as Clare.I saw several WhatApp message, one of them read,”My babe, usinimalizie
utamu,ubakishe for next week”.I took a screenshot and sent to my phone. I also
went to his Facebook inbox. These ones irritated me so much that I was forced
to ask my husband.I waited until he was through with taking a shower and asked
him why he was doing this to me.He defended himself that it’s the woman who
desperately wants him and that he has nothing to do with her.He even swore has
never met the girl.I reluctantly swallowed his words.
A month later,as we were
sleeping, a girl called.My husband cut off the call.But I was quick to ask him
why,he said it’s the mad girl who is calling.I told him to call as I listen.He
reluctantly called and what I heard didn’t please me.”My sweetheart,ball
inanisumbua sana,please come tomorrow mapema tuendanishe clinic”,she told my
I woke up from the sleep and
proceeded to siting room where I called the lady to confirm whether she was my
husband’s girlfriend.She told me,” Bwana Yako Ananikula Kila Siku, Nampakulia
Hivi na Anaingiza Yote”.The statement broke me completely.I hated what I heard.
That night,I slept in the
sitting room until the following morning when my husband parked his clothes and
went to Nakuru without even taking breakfast.
For one week, he didn’t say
anything until when he wrote this message, “I have moved on”. I thought it was
a joke and called him to confirm. That was the time he told me he was seeing
someone he loves. All this time his heart was elsewhere. Honestly, I loved my
husband and could do anything to bring him back but that girl Clare did all she
could to steal him from me.
For 6 full months,my husband
refused to come to Kisumu,he refused to call me and even blocked my number.
After I realized I could lose him forever,I went personally to Nakuru to see
him.In Nakuru I found that he had moved to another house, but one of his
neighbours directed me to his house.I stormed the house and found he was taking
tea with another woman. In the sitting room was a 1 month baby.At first I
thought I was dreaming only for my husband to confirm it’s true he had moved on
and is initiating a divorce process. He explained to me and left everything and
left me stranded in the house.I found myself alone in the house and decided not
to cause drama.I just left while crying.
For close to one year I have
been pondering on the way forward.My child asks for his father every day while
the father is happily living with another woman. It’s when I opened about my
situation with my workmate when she sat me down and explained what she did two
years ago.Jennifer,who I adore so much gave me this number to call, +254740637248.She told me
it belongs to Dr. Mugwenu who helped her 2 years ago to bring back her
husband.Jennifer told me she had tried prayers in church but none of her
prayers were heard.But after she visited the doctor,it only took 2 weeks for
the lost husband to call.