For most, if not all men, making their special women happy
is usually top priority – they live for it
In Africa, married couples are
constantly under pressure to ensure generational continuity by siring a brood
Pressure that man face daily
While women have the crazy task of taking good care of their men from how they
look to ensuring they’re well fed and the home and children are in order, men
have the heavier task of bringing home the bread and making the wife happy.
A man’s wife may look happy
when she’s well dressed, has lovely hair, the bills are taken care of, but the
material can never take the place of the emotional bond she shares with her
Women crave their men’s
attention and love. They also want their men to satisfy them sexually.
For years on end, the problem
of impotence, premature ejaculation, and/or inability for some men to satisfy their
women in the ‘secret chambers’ has been a source of depression and anxiety,
sometimes much stress to the men.
Con artists have taken
advantage of this problem by providing ‘remedies’ that solve the problem
immediately. However, a lot of the medications, ointments and promising cures
have fallen flat on their victims’ hopes. Some get even more physical
complications, others even dying after using these products.
Many men continue to drown in their sorrows because they just don’t know how to
deal with this either because they fear disclosing the issue, or they fear
taking remedies that will make things worse, or not work at all.
A story of John Ndiema who disappointed his wife
John Ndiema from Kajiado is one such man who tried everything he possibly could
after he couldn’t satisfy his woman in bed.
“I had a serious problem with my nguvu ya kiume,” said Ndiema.
Most wives find it hard to
confront their men about this issue as it would either make him withdraw for
good or go out to find a ‘mpango wa kando’ so they prefer to talk to a close
friend about it than discuss with their husbands.
Sadly, there are women who end
up disrespecting or even ignoring their men because they are ‘weak’ in the
“It was so shameful for me
because I disappointed my wife so many times it became so scary,” he added. “I
don’t even have a child with her.”
If a man’s first sexual
experience ended up in quick ejaculation, his woman will always or most times
turn you down when the issue of sex is raised.
Men are known to immediately
find a way to put an end to this as the women may leave them for other men.
Ndiema made a point of dealing
with his mental conflict and physical problem so he started looking for
“I had too much thoughts of my
wife getting sexual satisfaction from other men,” he said.
Salvation of man’s honour from
It was then that he rigorously scoured the internet and landed on reviews about
Dr. Mugwenu , a herbalist in East Africa whose treatments have worked for many.
Dr. Mugwenu from Kigoma,
Tanzania who has experience of over 40 years, says he does research in herbal
medicine and uses a variety of local herbs mixed with Arabic and Indian herbs,
alongside natural foods diet plan which he calls ‘Lishe Bora’.
“We pick the herbs from our
environment more so the great forests, then professionally prepare them in
order to help people with different problems,” he added.
The herbalist, who carefully
and professionally grows the herbs himself, says he uses these concoctions and
natural mixtures to heal people who are suffering from all kinds bodily
He says his herbs heal
pressure, diabetes, manhood problems, obesity (cut your body in shape), skin
complications, infertility /birth complications, and sexually transmitted
infections, among others.
“He gave me herbs and advised
me to use together with natural things like honey, simsim and others,” said
Besides physical ailments and
diseases, mugwenu says he also solves relationship problems such as those in
marriage or even dating, business and work related issues, career and political
success and all kinds of protection on assets and family, including bringing
back lost relatives.
Land disputes, which are very common among Africans, are also solved by
His charms include magical
rings, which he gives his clients to avoid bad debts, get lucky in winning
lottery games and business tenders, as well as chase away evil and bad spirits.